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> Child borrows Yaoi Manga from public library, No yaoi content posted, opinions on this
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  Posted: Oct 18 2012, 06:03 AM


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News Article Here

So its been reported that a 10 year-old girl managed to get a hold of and check out a yaoi manga from a public library, the manga had a Parental Advisory sticker on the cover. Its also been reported that the girls was all by herself, left alone at the library and the adult that reported the book was her uncle, not her father.

So what is everyone's opinion on this? Was the manga inappropriate for the girl? Is is the Library's fault for allowing easy access to such titles? Or is it the parents' fault for leaving the child unattended in a public place?

TVNihon posted a pretty interesting opinion on it:

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So a lot of you know that I work in a library, so these kind of stories really scratch that special interest itch when I see them. Basically, an uncle finds out his 10 year old niece checked out a yaoi manga that had gay sex in it. Sorta shocking, sure.

What amuses me is that the guy isn't even the girl's father. Maybe the parents are totally cool with this. I mean, it's not necessarily the uncle's place to raise his niece in place of the parents.

But let's ignore that. Let's suppose this guy was her father and he wasn't okay with this. It does strike me as weird that he would consider it the library's duty to decide what is okay and not okay for his daughter. That's not how libraries work. We can't throw out Twilight or Fifty Shades of Grey just because you find it unfit for your kid's reading consumption.

TLDR: There's no substitution for the parent. It's the parent's job to decide what is okay for their kids to see on TV, on the Internet, or in their books. Either be an active parent in your kid's life, or don't complain when society and the media raise the kid for you.

From the Kotaku article:
"What also sickens me is that people are going to the library to read this kind of content?" added De Nevers. "An anime comic book section is where people go to read porn? Around kids? There is no good coming from this being in our library."

This quote bothers me because it's pretty judgmental. A lot of people like different things. That doesn't mean their deviants or whatever. Besides, people who read the articles know the manga in particular was shelved in the adult section. So while I'm sure the "Won't somebody please think of the children?!" will stir up some attention, it's sort of unfounded sensationalist shit.

I mean, who was with the girl? They said they dropped off the girl at the library. Was she by herself? 10 years old is almost teenage age, but that's still too young for a kid to be alone in a public place by themself. What's the law say about this? Who was watching over the girl and making sure she picked up materials acceptable in her household? The real problem here sounds like there's a lack of parental oversight in this household. The uncle and grandmother are mentioned, but there's nothing about the parents.
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Posted: Oct 18 2012, 06:18 AM


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It's ultimately the parent's and the child's responsibility to regulate what is and isn't appropriate for the child's viewing. While the library might have some sort of policy wherein ID is required for borrowing works with explicit content, the same is true of video game storefronts and M rated games. Kids circumvent it all the time. The only tried and true way is to establish that boundary with your child as a parent and subsequently enforce it through supervision.

If this is the girl's first time being caught with explicit material from the library, then I don't think there's really anything to take away from it other than a lesson learned by the parents. I'd hope that in the future if they don't want her viewing that material at this point in her life, that they would be more diligent in checking her library check outs.
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Posted: Oct 18 2012, 06:40 AM


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Basically, I completely agree with the opinions you quoted TVNihon sharing. In a case like this, the uncle has no jurisdiction and neither does the library. That manga does not have any material that can by law be objectively defined as "explicit" (genitalia exposed, etc.)

The "Parental Advisory" sticker is just that - an advisory to parents that the material may be unsuitable for their child. It does not hold any legal ground in any way, so any argument whatsoever against the library is asinine. Not to mention the fact that the uncle is not even her parent, so the "Parental Advisory" sticker doesn't even apply to him (if you want to get technical.)

This whole thing is no one's fault. No, it's not the parents' fault, either. This material, while arguably not suitable for minors, is not going to do any kind of harm to her either. If this were something actually dangerous, we could start placing blame, but to say that "it's X-person's fault this happened" is more than a little extreme, because, quite frankly, nothing happened. This manga, as I said before, was not even explicit. This is just a bunch of hyper-modest, closed-minded foolishness by people who get butthurt about the slightest mention of sex and kids reading about it. It's insane.

Now, for the record, I would be against my kid reading this manga. Not because I have any objections toward the content, but because yaoi manga is usually a gateway to fujoshi-weeabooland. tongue.gif
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Posted: Oct 18 2012, 04:19 PM


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QUOTE (kyonpalm @ 9 hours, 38 minutes ago)
Now, for the record, I would be against my kid reading this manga. Not because I have any objections toward the content, but because yaoi manga is usually a gateway to fujoshi-weeabooland. tongue.gif

This, oh god fucking this....

I have met some respectable people who aren't like this, but it seems the majority (and by majority, I mean loudest) of this fandom is like this...Any con I go to hear on the east coast has that one booth in the dealers' room which exploits this shit to the fullest.

Not saying this shit is bad, just another case of a few bad eggs spoiling the dozen. Same could be said about some of the guys I've seen checking out other shit like figs and gunpla. Some of the creepiest, most-likely-to-be-considered-pedophiles-in-a-completely-non-joking-manner guys I've seen at cons. They make some of the classic Japanese stereotypes look tame.

But getting back on-topic, the sticker says "advisory"....it's not like it states flat-out that youth are restricted from reading, just advised not to.

It's like in Pirates of the Caribbean with regards to Parlay...it's more like guidelines.