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APX | Posted: Jun 10 2016, 11:05 AM | ||
Join the Empire today! Or die, rebel scum! Group: Advanced Members Posts: 13,455 Member No.: 1,473 Joined: Mar 18th 2004 Location: Update Profile | Well, the question has sorta been answered already before, it helps out in the bedroom in terms of making the sexual/loving encounter longer (Again, sometimes you just want a quicky, by all means go all out) Also may help the partner/you out in knowing how the partner/you enjoys being touched when it close to the 'big finish' or one of the finishes. Maybe it excites them that you watch them, that they know you enjoy seeing them like that and not just all over them without seeing how they/you are when it comes to that. And the first 3 questions flow in that as well, they'll enjoy seeing a certain type of video (Maybe they have a 'oh doctor, check me out down here' type of role play) and you both play it out in your own fun way.
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Tessou | Posted: Jun 10 2016, 11:17 AM |
More NEGATIVE than a black hole Group: ADMINISTRATOR Posts: 19,345 Member No.: 12,263 Joined: Sep 12th 2005 Location: Update Profile | I asked because there are a lot of people out there that will cold turkey the pornography while in a relationship, because it either bothers them and/or their partner to think about another person (real or fake) during sex, or their partner straight up despises adult material of any sort. Myself, I don't really watch porn unless it's dropped on me. Like last year for my 29th birthday, somebody sent me a video with a girl that looked ridiculously similar to my wife, and it was good, except for the part where the guy looked nothing like me and ended up pissing the girl off in the end (he didn't finish how she wanted him to, we'll put it that way). Kind of killed the immersion. I'll let Cecilia talk about her personal preferences regarding adult videos, as I find them hilarious in a good way. We do watch adult videos occasionally, but not to stimulate or enhance sex. It's usually out of curiosity. See Spongeknob Squarenuts sometime if you have ten minutes to spare. |
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Metamorphic | Posted: Jun 10 2016, 09:23 PM | ||
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Really depends on the person. My wife accepts me looking at pornos and also mind you whacking off to it. Porn doesnt take away the intimacy in our relationship nor does it enhance it. However that being said its not for everyone. I also know a friend who was on the larger side in an abusive relationship and her partner will turn to porn instead of being intimate with her. Till today she still has psychological trauma from the ordeal. | ||
Cecilia | Posted: Jun 14 2016, 12:24 AM |
Easy to please. Since day one. Group: Advanced Members Posts: 948 Member No.: 31,385 Joined: Dec 19th 2008 Location: Ames, IA | In a marriage, it is not always necessary to share EVERYTHING. Privacy is a necessity. If my husband decides he wants to watch some porn to release some stress, that's his business. As long as it doesn't take my place, it's cool. If I wish to do the same, I may. Also, going to the bathroom and doing private grooming and such are to be done behind closed doors and away from your loving spouse. It kills the magic if you don't. (That's our opinion, anyway.) That said, I never EVER wear sweats or grubby 'house-clothes'. I always like to look my best in front of my darling. Should he love me no matter what? Hell no. Not if I look like a slob and show him disrespect by not caring enough about him to present myself well and keep in good shape. I want him to be attracted to me as well, of course! If I have nothing appropriate to wear due to clean laundry shortage, I just go without fabric garments. Sexy! Also, male cum shots in porn are gross. To me. It's not from my own husband, so it's icky. Lol I'm not entirely sure why seeing strangers goo all over someone else makes me avert my eyes. It just does. So I watch lesbis instead. They wear gorgeous lingerie, have lovely hair, perfectly manicured nails and well groomed lady nethers. I imagine they smell sweet and fruity like the gorgeous, scantily clad Vietnamese sluts from the BC Cafe in Westminster. They had the best damn smoothies. I hate when porn chicas have hideously fake boobs. Like that one chick in Pirates. It bothered me so much since it was grotesquely obvious. I kept thinking, "Doesn't that hurt? Were they done very recently?" I kept expecting them to squeak like over inflated balloons being rubbed together...but alas. This is real life of fake chi chis. One more thing, marriage before mortgage. Don't you dare shack up with someone and entangle yourself in a massive financial responsibility without first marital stability. It's very, very ugly. You'll be entirely screwed. Ok. I've said enough. I should be alseep instead of waxing nearly incoherent. Good night! Glad the thread is back. 💖 [ Post made via Mobile Device ] |
Tessou | Posted: Jun 15 2016, 09:06 AM |
More NEGATIVE than a black hole Group: ADMINISTRATOR Posts: 19,345 Member No.: 12,263 Joined: Sep 12th 2005 Location: Update Profile | I got a great laugh from the above post, and it's all true. There is very little we consider "private" in our house, so only the most extreme stuff is kept behind closed doors. Unless I'm taking a shit, the door is always open. Enjoy watching me shave in the morning with my package pendulating in the breeze. She certainly does. Here's my question to IDW for the week, as I work tirelessly on getting Cecilia to sit down for 30 minutes to record a no-holds-barred discussion on sex and porn: what is your favorite position and why? Do you like a certain angle? Does your partner need to do anything, or can they just sit back and relax while you entertain them with your sick moves? |
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xiao | Posted: Jun 15 2016, 10:25 AM | ||||
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Well I'm neither in a relationship right now nor have I ever had like actual sex but I did once make a girl happy by trying the pottery position with her. I mean I don't know if counts as sex but... I was behind her smooching kisses on her shoulders while my left hand conjoined her left hand, and my right hand was ...you know... with her right hand guiding mine. It kind'a looked like this *cough* without the clay:
That's a pretty good rainy date night movie, just sayin' ~ ninja vanish! ~ *poof* | ||||
Metamorphic | Posted: Jul 5 2016, 04:21 AM | ||
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Sorry guys been very busy favourite position hey. From a physical perspective I love doggy theres just somwthing really raw and primal about it. Connecting with my partner (pardon the pun) theres nothing more sexy than being close and looking each other in the eyes in classic missionary love it when wifey wraps her legs around my waist. For visual cant beat girl on top and she does everything. [ Post made via Mobile Device ] | ||
APX | Posted: Jul 11 2016, 02:40 PM |
Join the Empire today! Or die, rebel scum! Group: Advanced Members Posts: 13,455 Member No.: 1,473 Joined: Mar 18th 2004 Location: Update Profile | So IDW'ers: Have you ever used/thought of using a sex toy? (Goes for the few women as well) If so, what would you recommend pr stay away from? Guess this would also go for lubrication and 'protection' as well. |
Nomake Wan | Posted: Jul 11 2016, 02:45 PM |
ShiMACHaze Group: Advanced Members Posts: 19,542 Member No.: 5,394 Joined: Feb 5th 2005 Location: Drydock | Sir Mix-a-Lot covers this topic pretty well in a few short words: "Silicone parts are made for toys." Thank you, Sir Mix-a-Lot, for being the guiding light of self-gratification. |
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APX | Posted: Jul 11 2016, 02:50 PM | ||
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Tessou | Posted: Jul 11 2016, 03:14 PM |
More NEGATIVE than a black hole Group: ADMINISTRATOR Posts: 19,345 Member No.: 12,263 Joined: Sep 12th 2005 Location: Update Profile | ^ Mix A Lot also flamed out soon after that video, so take his wisdom or lack thereof as you will. Yes. We have some. Yes, we've used them. Stay away from anything that plugs into a wall outlet. |
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xiao | Posted: Jul 11 2016, 05:21 PM | ||
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★ My personal favourites are Alter, Good Smile, and Gift. Though I'd personally recommend starting out with Wave's beach lineup, as they're already aesthetically poised for liquid ornamentation. Just remember to clean them no further than 5 minutes post extradermal trajectory synthesis (ETS) and they'll be fine. I started out with Wave's SS ver. Misaka Mikoto and graduated summa cum laude with their edition of swim NatsuRin from Little Busters. ★ As for oils. I've seen my fair share of people sticking pepsi's and cucumbers where they're really not supposed to (not necessarily together); thus I have to attest to Tessou's recommendation that water-soluble lubrication is essential and highly necessary between two individuals. However, if you're just waxing the turtle alone, I personally dislike creams and slippery solutions. Therefor after years of studying the tentacle phenomena in Japanese cinematography. I've concluded that a sweet & sticky gelatinous compound is the best way to indulge your sensual appetite. My personal weapon of choice is always Mrs. Butterworth's, as it's the most viscous flavour with a slightly silky tactile sensation at the aftertaste, however Aunt Jemima will absolutely do in a pinch when you're out. It's also a very pleasing foreplay supplement among couples... just don't get too crazy with the biting. Professionally speaking of course: Image size reduced, original size: 5376 x 3024. Click here to view the image in its original dimension. ★ tl;dr maple syrup is great for sex! This post has been edited by xiao on Jul 12 2016, 08:14 AM | ||
Tessou | Posted: Jul 16 2016, 10:07 AM |
More NEGATIVE than a black hole Group: ADMINISTRATOR Posts: 19,345 Member No.: 12,263 Joined: Sep 12th 2005 Location: Update Profile | Is there a setup you need to have to get things going? Does the bed need to be covered in rose petals? Mood music? Porn on the television/computer? Scented candles? For me, the lights cannot be room lights. Gotta have a lamp or something to dim the overall light level. It's not an image thing, as I am fully aware of what I look like without clothes and don't have a problem with being seen in that state, I just like not having the room light burning my eyes out if I'm lying down. I've had random tv on in the background sometimes, but I find it mostly distracting and turn it off as things heat up. Smooth jazz works, nearly everything else is difficult to work with as I can't keep pace with faster rhythms anymore. Too many falls in my lifetime makes the hips and knees creakier than a dilapidated boat. Speaking of heating up, temp is important. We have a steel blade fan in the room to keep airflow going, or it becomes a swamp that smells like sex very quickly. Even with the central air at 70F, without airflow, I start sweating hard if I'm on a good rhythm, and that gets distracting very quickly. === SEX PROTIP: go blindfolded sometime. Either one or both of you wears a blindfold of some sort (I use a Hello Kitty sleep mask, no shit). It's like being Daredevil. Your other senses are heightened and there's a sense of discovery in every move. |
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Nerubian | Posted: Jul 16 2016, 10:54 AM | ||
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Uh, how does sex smell? And ever tried ambient music? It's also very relaxing. | ||
Tessou | Posted: Jul 16 2016, 12:13 PM |
More NEGATIVE than a black hole Group: ADMINISTRATOR Posts: 19,345 Member No.: 12,263 Joined: Sep 12th 2005 Location: Update Profile | Musky. If you walk into a room with fresh air and then back to the "sex room", you'll know the difference. |
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Cecilia | Posted: Jul 16 2016, 01:20 PM | ||
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It smells like when you put 'Something' inside 'something' else and then take it out and put it back in, again and again and again. [ Post made via Mobile Device ] | ||
xiao | Posted: Jul 16 2016, 04:00 PM | ||
moon bunny Group: XIAO Posts: 5,735 Member No.: 13,323 Joined: Oct 4th 2005 Location: Update Profile | Tripple agree'd I absolutely adore heat & feeling like I'm burning inside a pool of magma BUT 20 bucks says your girl/boyfriend doesn't! There's times when high-temperatures are an absolute turn-on... like at the beach, at a concert, at a spa, a jacuzzi, or inside a really steamy car with bass-bumping knock your sox-off muzak ~ ♪ ♫ Lights are an equal phenomena ~ it all depends on the time & place you're having fun with your girl. When in doubt, like Tessou said, dimmed lights are relaxing and makes the both of you feel a little bit less like you're in an operating table, getting probed by aliens, or a pack of hot dogs in the fridge. Music for me is always gotta be either a really groovy instrumental piece, or straight-up R&B+Disco, basically what you hear people that can actually sing, sing. Barry White, T-Pain, Next, Bee Gees, Blackstreet, Backstreet Boys, Genuine, One Direction, etc etc... turn that stupid Eurobeat Techno J-pop shit off cause you're not flying an F-14 with Tom Cruise & it's too fast... unless you're planning on having sex at a rave/caveman orgy while you're both dancing on loopy pills. Go with anything that has a low tempo so your bodies can unwind & sync to the music ~ ☆彡 Like I mentioned, I've never had sex, but I've done a lot of freaky shit with both sexes that could technically land me in non-virgin territory... masturbation's great! it's even better with another person ~ sex with yourself, a bottle of maple syrup, or
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APX | Posted: Jul 16 2016, 08:24 PM |
Join the Empire today! Or die, rebel scum! Group: Advanced Members Posts: 13,455 Member No.: 1,473 Joined: Mar 18th 2004 Location: Update Profile | So as someone mentioned elsewhere... What outfits/items do you enjoy putting on to 'spice' things up? Or what items did you/they use that was just for fun and things led to the magic case of whoopy? Do you prefer having something on (nurse outfit/cosplay things going on) to intensify the moment, or are you all for just stripping and being bare and enjoying the time? |
Tessou | Posted: Jul 17 2016, 06:16 PM |
More NEGATIVE than a black hole Group: ADMINISTRATOR Posts: 19,345 Member No.: 12,263 Joined: Sep 12th 2005 Location: Update Profile | I've worn all sorts of stuff you'd normally find at a sex shop. My favorite one is a doctor's smock with a nametag for "Dr. Miles Long". |
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Saint | Posted: Aug 7 2016, 01:22 PM |
The 6th Blameless Shift Group: Advanced Members Posts: 2,720 Member No.: 2,067 Joined: Jun 21st 2004 Location: The Other Side | You guys need Jesus. Anyway, any good Asian 'star' recommendation? |
Nomake Wan | Posted: Aug 7 2016, 07:13 PM | ||
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Miku Abeno, Suzu Ichinose, Tsubomi, Love Saotome. Those are the big ones right off the top of my head. There are of course more but it depends on what you're into I guess. | ||
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APX | Posted: Aug 7 2016, 09:11 PM |
Join the Empire today! Or die, rebel scum! Group: Advanced Members Posts: 13,455 Member No.: 1,473 Joined: Mar 18th 2004 Location: Update Profile | Also depends on what you mean by 'Asian'. We talking about just solely Japan based stars? Or american ones? American (IF you want) there's Kitty/Kitten Katsu, Katsumi, Ava Devine. Though theres a few Japanese that have come to the states to get their american star thing going on, but can't think of their names. |
Saint | Posted: Aug 7 2016, 10:31 PM |
The 6th Blameless Shift Group: Advanced Members Posts: 2,720 Member No.: 2,067 Joined: Jun 21st 2004 Location: The Other Side | Nice. Will check the names. I meant Asian Americans like Mia Li, Evelyn Li, Katsuni, Hase Marika, etc. I got bored with JAVs nowadays. Western ones seem more passionate in their acts, although they could skip the spitting part. Ewww. I like girls with hot bodies like Yoshinaga Akane. Tsubomi's kinda underdeveloped in my taste. |
APX | Posted: Aug 7 2016, 10:39 PM |
Join the Empire today! Or die, rebel scum! Group: Advanced Members Posts: 13,455 Member No.: 1,473 Joined: Mar 18th 2004 Location: Update Profile | Hase was a sole JAV star before coming to america. I guess Hitomi is one, though she's only dabbled in lesbian scenes with americans/euros. But almost all the 'hot' ones are pinoys for some reason. lol |
xiao | Posted: Aug 8 2016, 12:52 AM | ||
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